As per tradition, we usually go riding the quads/dirtbikes when ever we come back to CA to visit family.
This year we went with an extremely large group of people, probably 40 or so. We went over Presidents Day weekend not only because it allowed a lot of people to have a 3 day weekend, but it was a memorial service for our friends' brother Chris Metro. I didn't have the opportunity to meet Chris, but the memorial service that was put on was a special day that I was blessed to take part in.
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Tim and Wendy next to the memorial. This poem was read:
The Dash
by Linda Ellis copyright 1996
I read of a man who stood to speak at the funeral of a friend. He referred to the dates on her tombstone, from the beginning…to the end.
He noted that first came the date of her birth and spoke of the following date with tears,but he said what mattered most of allwas the dash between those years.
For that dash represents all the time that she spent alive on earth. And now only those who loved her know what that little line is worth.
For it matters not, how much we own, the cars…the house…the cash. What matters is how we live and love and how we spend our dash.
So, think about this long and hard. Are there things you’d like to change?For you never know how much time is left that can still be rearranged.
If we could just slow down enough to consider what’s true and realand always try to understand the way other people feel.
And be less quick to anger and show appreciation more and love the people in our lives like we’ve never loved before.
If we treat each other with respectand more often wear a smile,remembering that this special dashmight only last a little while.
So, when your eulogy is being read, with your life’s actions to rehash… would you be proud of the things they say about how you spent YOUR dash?
Copyright Linda EllisALL RIGHTS RESERVED
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On a lighter note, here are some of the pictures I was able to take of us.
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Hi Papi |
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Hanging with Dad |
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He can be so sweet... |
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I see that evil look little boy |
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...and such a punk. (Throwing sand on his dad) |
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Howdie |
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Archie |
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Tim |
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Big John |
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Shela |
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Little John Jack |
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Clark was making "motorcycle" sounds |
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This picture cracks me up! It was my chipmunk faze of the trip. |
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Having too much fun to sleep. |
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Flying kits |
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Do you see the flag in the background? Yep, it was that windy. |
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Running after the kite that got away. |
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Mom, I think I might blow away! |
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Clark dug this hole. |
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Clark missed sand so much! Korea doesn't have very much for kids to play in. A lot of the Korean playgrounds have these rubber tiles around the playground equipment. So while at the desert, Clark would scoop the dirt into a pile in front of him, hug the sand and then lay his head on it. |
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As Jack would say: "Coffee, coffee, coffee, coffee!!!" |
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Flying kits on the second day. The wind was much nicer to fly in. |